“If you don’t know where you’re going, you’ll end up someplace else.” -Yogi Berra
The way this system works is that it starts with over 300 questions that are designed to help us get as clear of a view of everything about yourself as possible—where you’ve been, where you’re at, and where you’re going. Some questions are a simple one word answer, some questions you could write five pages about if you wish.
The main goal is for us to be clear about where you’re at and where you want to go. This will give us a good starting point on how you can most effectively move forward, what strategies work well for you and which techniques to avoid.
Even people who like to think of themselves as introspective are unlikely to have gone to the depth that these questions help you penetrate. The mind is skilled at being able to ignore, deflect and rationalize away whatever it finds uncomfortable.
One purpose of answering these questions is that it makes it difficult to hide from yourself; it brings the parts of yourself that are generally kept in the background into the foreground. While this work is extraordinarily helpful, most people are not ready to look at themselves with this level of transparency, let alone bare their soul to someone else, let alone bare their soul to someone else to receive feedback on the depth of their being. It’s not easy to be this vulnerable, but the rewards are immense for those who are strong enough.
These questions are designed to challenge you. You may think you’re pretty hot stuff for dominating your local courts, but if you want to play at the highest level, to the best of your abilities, you need to step up to the big leagues and spend more time around people who will kick your ass and challenge you to be the best that you can be. Answering these questions is a huge leap in that direction.
Although it’s recommended, you don’t have to answer every question and you also don’t have to go deep into every question. However, the more you open up and let me know who you really are and where you’re really at, the more I can help you.
Most of these questions can lead to fairly in-depth responses. If you take this seriously, you will likely end up with around 15-25 pages worth of information that explains almost everything about yourself as thoroughly as possible. You will become much clearer about who you are just by going through this first step.
Yes, it’s a lot of work. But you cannot expect to have tremendous growth without putting in the work.
How Do We Work Together?
After you finish answering the questions you submit them to me to begin the an initial assessment. (If, however, you cannot afford to work with me, then you can fill out these questions with a friend and give each other feedback.)
Note: Because of how vulnerable it is to show me the answers to all of these questions, telling me way more about you than even Google or Facebook know, we can do this work completely anonymously and securely if you would like.1 But either way, the information you give is completely confidential.
After receiving your answers, I will go over them and ask you to clarify and expand upon certain areas. There will likely be several back-and-forths until we iron everything out.
The reason why we do so much of this is that there is no one-size-fits all approach to life. In order to custom tailor the best path of growth for you, I need to know as much about you as possible. While this process helps me get clear about who you are, it’s also effective for helping you learn about yourself.
Once we’re crystal clear about who you are, where you’re at and where you want to go, it will be easy see where to apply the least amount of work for the greatest results. (These benefits were mentioned on the previous page.) The main goal being to get you closer and closer to a firm yes to all of the questions on the home page.
How to prioritize where to focus mostly depends on what you need and what you think you need, which aren’t always the same.
While your priority might be to get better at one thing, what may be limiting you is a weakness or blindness in another area. If you want to make more money, the main limiting factor may be your interpersonal skills, which could be your lack of ability to network, your lack of apparent trustworthiness, your lack of integrity, the disconnect between how you see yourself and how other people see you, etc. If you want to get better at your interpersonal skills, the main thing holding you back may be how you relate to your emotions. If you want to have a healthier relationship with your emotions, the main thing slowing you down may be your low self-esteem.2 If you have low self-esteem, the main thing holding you back may be your physical health. If you have poor physical health, the main thing holding you back may be poor mental fortitude.
Everything is interrelated. This is why it’s so important to do all of the work instead of myopically focusing on “niching down.” In business, it’s best to focus entirely on maximizing your strengths—you can always work with people who complement you. In your personal life, it’s best to focus on training your weaknesses—no one can exercise for you.
What is being offered here is the complete package—how to be successful at the fundamentals of life, which builds the foundation to be successful at anything and everything. Feel better, accomplish more, make more money in a better way, have healthier thoughts, eat better, feel more confident in your body, make better friends, have better and more abundant sex, and help the world in a profound way as possible.
While my expertise is with a wide range of topics, i.e., multidisciplinary, it may seem like I’m claiming to be qualified at everything. So let me tell you what I am not. I am not a doctor, psychotherapist, nutritionist, physical therapist, financial advisor, lawyer, or an accountant. If you require the specialized services of these professionals I can either make a recommendation or help you evaluate who would be right for you.
People I Work With
I do not work with everyone who wants to work with me. I won’t work with people who are not a good fit for this type of work.
I do not offer money-back guarantees. I’m busy enough as it as, I have no desire to increase my workload for someone who’s unsure if my services are worth it.
Here are the qualities I look for:
- Committed to be the best that you can be
- Fed up with the status quo
- Unwilling to settle for a normal life
- Ambitious and hungry to make a dent in the universe
- Weird, wacky or eccentric
By investing in this MMM system, you are investing in yourself. You are enlisting me to become your greatest ally, friend, consultant, advisor and mentor. I will help you fully step into your power.
This program has two options, silver and gold. Both start the same with the in-depth analysis of where you’re currently at and where you want to go. Where they differ is in the frequency of my involvement in your process.
The work we do is more spread out than with Gold. We work intensely together for about two weeks every three months where we will communicate through email, phone or video calls.
In-between these sessions you may reach out to me through email for urgent matters, but the bulk of our work is to be condensed to two weeks every three months.
The way we orient these sessions and track growth is around the 10 categories:
Each quarter, we’ll process the past three months going over where you started, how it went, and where you finished in each of these categories. We’ll then strategize the best way to most effectively improve in each of these categories in the next quarter.3
Silver includes highly discounted prices for all of the in-person events that I lead and slightly discounted entrance to other in-person events that I help facilitate.
Price: $2,222 a year.
The work we do together is more consistent. Gold includes all of Silver, with the intense sessions every quarter, but also shorter sessions every fortnight. This allows us to continually mold and adapt our approach to get you the best results possible. If pressing matters arise in-between sessions, I will be available via email and phone (within reason).
Gold includes access to my network. Depending on the needs that you have, I may set you up with free sessions with different experts like nutritionists, personal trainers, NLP practitioners, more advanced yoga teachers than me, sex therapists, tantra workers, musicians, artists, permaculturists, etc.
Gold includes allows you to come to all of the in-person events that I lead for free as well as discounted entrance to other in-person events that I help facilitate.
Price: $11,111 a year.
Interested in working together?
If you’re curious about working together, please send me an email addressing the following topics:
- You’re thinking of working with me or someone like me because _____________.
- Your biggest doubts and fears about working with me are _____________.
- You’re most interested in the MMM system because _____________.
- You’re biggest doubts and fears about this system are _____________.
- (Anything else you want to bring up or ask me about.)
I generally respond within 2-3 business days.
1. If anonymity is important to you, I offer different layers of solutions. You can payments with cryptocurrencies like bitcoin, ether, litecoin, monero and nano. You can also submit all of the answers to the questions through PGP encryption, which I will never store unencrypted. If you’re interested in phone consultations, there are various options we can use so that we can voice chat while you remain anonymous. [return to text]
2. Having a big ego is essentially when your perceived self-esteem is much higher than your actual self-esteem. Therefore, having a big ego is one form of low self-esteem. [return to text]
3. Sometimes you may be content to coast in certain categories to focus more on others. You don’t always need to be improving in all of the categories. [return to text]